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April 27 ·
sorry
group. I just lost a friend of 12 years a few hours ago. I am feeling a way
about it. But the super part is, I will have about 10 more hours a week to
devote to this work. Up soon, daily posts about the counts, and video
explanations.
I
wrote this only like 90 minutes of so after liz ended our video chat with a end call, block. Which I
immediately returned the favor and blocked her on my facebook.
so in 12 or 16 hours when her temper cooled and she
realized what she did, she would realize it was a one way trip. Which I warned her mor ehtan a
few times, that step away from me is a one way
trip, unless extreme circumstances.
I
write this 2023 8 16 0235 and I still do not regress my radio silence. She has
emailed me about 2 dozen times, including a few that day and the next couple
days. All of which I skimmed but refused to reply to.
I
knew and had it almost to the timing, she got frisky and mimicked an
intimate behavior pattenr. All intimate behavior
patterns before within 12 to 20 hours let to her loosing her temper. From light to full on hard core “I
hate you and want nothing to do with you, ever again”. Then 12 hours to 16
hours later the PTSD cooled and the temper explosion was then forgotten
about and life and normal our chats continedu. In
other words the morning after a DV event, the DV abusor once the temper cools the abuse and illegal
behavior are all forgotten and “life as normal resums”.
Till the next extreme temper flash then, the DV happens again. About every
2 weeks since sept she has been chewing me out hard core, “our friendship
is over” then end the call. I would then ignore and go about my day. Till the
next morening when she would call and suddenly
the temper explosion was entirely forgotteh about.
This
was witnessed by at least a dozen people. Severa lfo
which made comments when it was over, “that was DV, I was about to intervien but you kept saying ‘it
is ok, I have it handled’ so I left it alone.
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